RESET BUTTON AND CHANGE SCENE NOT WORKING WELL

I made a reset scene button when attribute of actors life is 0, it is displayed and resets the scene...when I click on it it resets the scene but is displayed also on the actor and the actor vanishes again...each time I click on it the actor appears and disappears.....Secondly...I made a change scene button but when I click on it it goes to another scene...I deleted it and still didn't work out well...It is supposed to got to the main menu but it goes to level 1....
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as far as your first question, you need to be more clear on what is going wrong and what you are trying to do. a video would help a ton in showing it off.